-cetusan hati-

1. Bila si dia sibuk…
Jangan sesekali merengek atau mengada-ngada ( yangg paling kasar bahasanya " TERGEDIK-GEDIK" semata-mata nak menarik perhatian si dia. Fahamilah keadaan si lelaki mungkin memikirkan sesuatu yangg lebih penting. Mungkin perancangan masa depan untuk membina Mahligai Impian. macam Impian kasih

2. Bila si dia ego……
Jangan sesekali kamu mempersoalkan tentang keegoan bila sikap sebegini sedang menguasai dirinya. Lelaki amat payah untuk mengakui dirinya ego sebaliknya berpendapat ianya ketegasan.

3. Bila si dia romantik….
Ajaklah si dia bersiar-siar di tepi pantai ataupun makan malam di bawah cahaya lilin sambil mengenangi saat-saat manis pertemuan pertama dan jangan lupa selit sekali perancangan untuk masa depan bersama.

4. Bila si dia panas baran….
Jangan membuat sesuatu yangg boleh menyemarakkan lagi perasaan marahnya. Cuba kamu berdiam diri dulu sampai kemarahan reda.

5. Bila si dia penat…….
Jangan mengadu perkara ataupun bercerita tentang hal yg remeh. Dalam saat sebegini si dia hanya perlu rehat yg secukupnya dan jangan memaksa dia membuat sesuatu yg boleh menambah kepenatan.

6. Bila si dia pentingkan diri sendiri…
Cuba berterus-terang dan meluahkan rasa tidak puas hati kamu tentang sikapnya itu. Kamu patut bersikap terbuka dan memintanya supaya mengimbangi pendapat kamu juga. Jangan lupa untuk bertoleransi antara satu sama lain.

7. Bila si dia mengongkong..
Kalau kamu memberontak, pasti akan dimarahinya. Tapi kalau menurut saja katanya takut menjejaskan diri sendiri. Untuk itu, kamu perlu berkata padanya untuk membiarkan kamu membuat keputusan sendiri asalkan tidak menjejas hubungan kamu berdua.

8. Bila si dia selamba……
Cuba tarik perhatian si dia. Contohnya membuat sesuatu yg boleh menarik minatnya. Orang yang selamba ini selalunya ingin kita yang memulakan dahulu. Oleh sebab itu, kamu patut merancang sesuatu bagaimana untuk menarik perhatiannya.

9. Bila si dia curang…..
Jgn tuduh tanpa usul periksa. Jika benar si dia curang, bersemuka dan tanya dengan si dia mengapa bersikap begitu. Tapi kalau si dia tetap dengan keputusannya, eloklah kamu sendiri yang berundur dulu sebelum makin parah kelukaan hati.

10. Bila si dia lurus bendul…..
Memang kamu boleh mengambil kesempatan ke atas dirinya tetapi jangan sampai memperlekehkan setiap tindak tanduknya. Kamu patut menjadi perangsang padanya dan mengatakan yang si dia mampu membuat keputusan sendiri tanpa mengharapkan orang lain sangat.

RASULULLAH S.A.W BERSABDA: YANG ERTINYA:

Barang siapa yang mengerat kukunya pada ;
* Hari Sabtu: Nescaya keluar dari dalam tubuhnya ubat dan masuk kepadanya penyakit
* Hari Ahad: Nescaya keluar daripadanya kekayaan dan masuk kemiskinan
* Hari Isnin: Nescaya keluar daripadanya gila dan masuk sihat
* Hari Selasa: Nescaya keluar daripadanya sihat dan masuk penyakit
* Hari Rabu: Nescaya keluar daripadanya was-was dan masuk kepadanya kepapaan
* Hari Khamis: Nescaya keluar daripadanya gila dan masuk kepadanya sembuh dari penyakit
* Hari Jumaat: Nescaya keluar dosa-dosanya seperti pada hari dilahirkan oleh ibunya dan masuk kepadanya rahmat daripada Allah Taala

ENAM PESANAN KHUSUS UNTUK WANITA

1. Jaga solat pada awal waktu. Kalau datang haid
sekalipun jika tidak dapat solat, kena duduk atas
tikar sembahyang supaya anak tidak lihat kita
meninggal solat.

2. Hidupkan Bacaan Hadis Nabi saw di rumah dengan
keluarga. Dianjur baca Hadis Fadhilat Amal. Ini amalan
sahabiah zaman Nabi saw sehingga dari rumah kita
keluar anak-anak yg soleh yg mendoakan kesejahteraan
kedua ibubapa dunia/akhirat.

3. Baca Al Quran setiap hari walaupun hanya 8 ayat.
Kalau tak mampu nak baca kerana terlalu sibuk, cukup
dengan mencium Al Quran dan muhasabah ‘Ya Allah, apa
dosa saya hingga saya tak dapat nak baca kitab Mu pada
hari ini." (Baca dengan mengeluarkan bunyi dari bibir, tak semestinya
mesti pegang al-Qur’an. Bacalah ayat-ayat lazim sambil memasak di
dapur.)

4. Mendidik anak secara Islam. Mengajar anak-anak dari
kecil bermula dengan doa-doa masnun.Iaitu doa seharian
Nabi saw saperti doa tidur, bangun tidur, makan dan
sebagainya.

5. Hidup sederhana dengan tidak membebankan suami.
Setiap hari malaikat akan menghantar 500 jambangan
bunga dari syurga untuk wanita yg hidup sederhana.
Setiap titisan air masakan dan basuhan mereka akan
menjadi zikir mohon keampunan kepada Allah swt atas
wanita tersebut.

6. Galak suami untuk bermujahadah atas Agama Allah.
Seorang isteri yg menggalakan suaminya untuk solat
berjemaah di Masjid/Surau akan dapat pahala berjemaah
suaminya termasuk solat dia sendiri.

Mudahan-mudahan ulasan ringkas ini bermanfaat.
Muzakarahlah bersama teman wanita lain supaya hakikat
amalan ini masuk dalam hati kita dan mudah nak amalkan…

Wassalam.

CaHayA yG mEnYiNaRi HidUp AnDa…

Jan 
     Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. Repost this in 5 mins and you will meet someone new in 8 days that will perfectly balance your personality.
Feb 
  Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt.  Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous.  Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.  Repost this in 5 mins and you will talk to someone new and realize that you are a perfect match.
Mar 
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive.  Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered.  Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness.  Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.  If you repost this in the next 5 mins, you will meet your new love in 8 days.
Apr 
  Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous.  Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic.  Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others.  Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains. If you repost this in 5 mins, a cutie that’s caught your eye will introduce themselves and you will realize that you are very much alike in the next 2 days.
May 
     Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children.  Hardworking. High-spirited. If you repost this in the next 5 minutes, you will become close to someone you do not speak too much in the next 4 days.
Jun 
You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!! IN the next 6 days you will meet someone that may possibly become one of your closest friends, if you repost this in 5  minutes.
Jul 
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed.  Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable.  Emotional temperamental and unpredictable.  Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times.  Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.  dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Repost this in the next 5 mins and your reputation will boost someway in the next 12 days
Aug 
  Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an "every thing’s peachy" attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer.  Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. in need of "that someone".  Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by "no pain no gain" caring.  Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious.  "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent  Strong willed. A fighter. Repost in 5 mins and you will meet the love of your life sometime next month.
Sept 
  Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional.  Stubborn.  Hasty.  Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore.  Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.  If you do not repost this in the next 5 mins, someone very close to you will become mad at you in the next 8 days.
Oct 
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly.  Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions Unpredictable.  Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all. repost this in 5 mins or you will not meet the love of your life for 10 years.
Nov 
  Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times.  Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group Fearless and independent.  Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind. Repost in 5 mins & you will excel in a major event coming up sometime this month.
Dec 
     This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible… Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious.  Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best.  Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.  Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding.  Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt.  Sensitive. [A hot new guy/girl will catch your eye & you will catch theirs too in the next 6 days, if you repost in 5mi